Remember, having to earn something is the major difference between rights and privileges. Kids must always work for their privileges. The main message is:

Remember, having to earn something is the major difference between rights and privileges. Kids must always work for their privileges. The main message is:
Let’s say you have a twelve-year-old boy who has enjoyed many privileges up to now – before you understood the principle of earning privileges. How are you going to help him understand that from now on, he needs to earn those privileges?